The arrival of a new baby brings joy and excitement. It also creates a new lifestyle for parents leaving them very little time for themselves. Couples should try to remain aware of the toll this little bundle of joy could be taking of their relationship.
Mom may be happily embracing the added responsibilities while bonding with baby. But in the meantime Dad very often feels ignored and left out, especially when intimacy and sex get placed on the back burner with the possibility he feels of never again heating up to pre pregnancy days. This time is pivotal in the future of the marriage. It may be a good time for couples to take stock and make conscious efforts to stay connected to insure their relationship doesn’t start the downward spiral into marital demise.
Moms may rightfully ask “who has time?” The first step to managing the time shortages is to prioritize and the couple’s relationship needs to be placed at the top of the list. Six weeks after childbirth the pain and overwhelming exhaustion should start to pass and you should be able to focus more on your relationship. Instead of cleaning while the baby sleeps, take a shower and spend time with your husband. The emotional bonding we need and crave requires a healthy sex life. But after a vaginal delivery, (the vagina is stretched to unimaginable proportions) decreased muscle tone in the vagina may reduce pleasurable friction during sex — which can influence arousal.
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